How often did your parents spank you as a child?

I was not spanked as a child but I do spank my daughter. I was spanked – very rarely but it did occur. I spank my children – not often. My parents spanked me for everything. Dad more than mom. over clothes (I think). I spank my children rarely, one swat. Only for specific issues and after a warning to let them rethink things. I was spanked.

Is it okay to ask your grandparents to spank you?

It’s okay to ask your grandmother or other relative to spank you if you don’t feel comfortable asking your parents but you should NEVERseek this kind of attention from strangers. There are a lot of people online, who, if you told them of your need, would offer to help and promise they understand your needs. They don’t.

Do you use a hand or a paddle to spank your child?

It doesn’t matter if you spank your children or not, if you use your hand or a paddle, if you take away their poeseions or confine them to their room.

Is it OK to spank your wife in Islam?

As with Judeo-Christianity, not all Islamics are peas in a pod as some Westerners suppose. There is diversity within the faith. Thus, while spanking one’s wife may not be an Islamic tradition, exposure to other cultures resulted in spanking being accepted by some Islamics. The real issue here may the letter of the law versus the spirit of the law.

What should I do if my parents spank me?

Suggest other forms of punishment. There are many ways your parents can discipline you nonviolently. Keep in mind your parents want to see you grow and mature as a child, and may feel spanking can help you become a better person and understand actions have consequences.

Do you have to get spanked all the time?

Personally I didn’t have to get spanked all the time, but there were times (like starting a fire) that totally called for a spanking according to my parents.

Why does Karen say she does not spank bare?

Now that they are “mature” she does not want to spank bare. She now uses a paddle and she spanks over boxers or thin pajamas. The boys would say that Karen actually spanks harder and they say they prefer a spanking from me even though I spank bare and she doesn’t. Karen says, “I don’t want to see it and I know they don’t want to show it.”

Which is better, a paddle or a bare Spank?

We feel that a bare spanking is much more effective. And I agree that you it’s easier to judge when to stop. We still spank our youngest over her pants when she gets the paddle but she does get spanked bare with our hand. Both seem to get her attention quite well.